Ngaba uyakholelwa kumandla omlingo? Ngaba ukhangela uhlobo lomlingo lomzimba olunokunceda kubomi bakho bemihla ngemihla? Ukuba ufuna into onokuthi uyisebenzise imihla ngemihla ukukuzisela uthando, imali, ukhuseleko, kunye nokuphilisa, kutheni ungazami ioli yesandawana? Ukusetyenziswa kwemihla ngemihla kweoli ye-sandawana kunokukunceda ngomlingo ukuba ufumane iminqweno yentliziyo yakho.

Ngoko uyasokola ebomini kwaye awukwazi ukuba wenze ntoni. Ngaba uswele imali? Ngaba ufuna uncedo ngobomi bakho bothando? Ngaba ulilolo? Nokuba zithini na iimpendulo zakho kule mibuzo, kukho into enokuphucula yonke indawo yobomi bakho: ioli yesandawana. Ukuba awuzange uve ngeoli ye-sandawana, ngoko ungaphakathi kwisidlo! Ioyile yeSandawana yioyile yomlingo enokukunceda ngobomi bakho bothando, imizabalazo yezemali, ukhuseleko- uyibiza ngegama. Njengamakhonkco omlingo, ioli ye-sandawana yenzelwe injongo ethile engqondweni. Umzekelo, ukuba ufuna uncedo ngobomi bakho bothando, kufuneka ukhangele ioli ye-sandawana yothando. Ukuba ufuna uncedo ngezimali zakho, kufuneka ujonge ioli yesandawana ngemali. Nokuba uxakene nantoni na, kukho ioli yesandawana enesisombululo