Ngaba uphulukene nothando lobomi bakho? Ngaba unemiba kubomi bakho bothando? Ngaba awukwazi ukuvakalisa iimvakalelo zakho kuthando lobomi bakho? Ukuba unayo nayiphi na kwezi ngxaki okanye nayiphi na enye ingxaki enxulumene nobomi bakho bothando ke ungasebenzisa ukupela kwethu okubophayo kuthando ukusombulula le miba. Kukho iimeko ezinxulumene nomtshato xa sele ziza kuqhawuka okanye omnye umntu uza kukushiya. Ukuba ufuna ukususa uloyiko lokuphulukana nothando lobomi bakho ke unokuthatha uncedo lwesipelingi esibophezelayo sothando. Siya kuzama ukubopha uthando lwakho ngonaphakade.

Ezinye iimeko nemilo inokuphumela kuqhawulo-mtshato. Ukuba ufuna ukuqhawula umtshato wakho kwaye ufuna ukuba nobomi obonwabisayo nomntu ohlala naye ke ezi zikhubalo zibophelelayo kubathandi yeyona ndlela ilungileyo njengoko zinokukunceda ekufikeleleni kwiimvakalelo zabo kwaye ulahle imiba njengoko oku kuya kukhulisa amandla abo. iimvakalelo kuwe eziya kuthi ekugqibeleni zikhokelele umtshato wakho kwinqanaba eliphezulu kwaye uya kuba nobomi obonwabisayo bomtshato wothando. Ukuphila ubomi bakho nothando lobomi bakho liphupha labantu abaninzi.